9-20-2009

This year we celebrated our anniversary like any other year. (In keeping with my theme of super late posts...our anniversary is on July 17 th.) We were more excited about our gift of an ice cream maker attachment for our mixer than anything but headed to dinner before going shopping. We had a gift card to Cheesecake Factory (thanks Auntie J!) so that's where we decided on for dinner. I had not been feeling well for several weeks but when I am stressed my symptoms mimic pregnancy. I got incredibly sick during dinner so we cut it short. I did regain enough composer to pick up an ice cream maker (my love of ice cream can overcome most obstacles!) and made Currey run by Target to get me a pregnancy test.

This may sound completely normal for someone not feeling well, but as many of you know I'm not "normal". :) One of the first questions my doctor asks me at most appointments is if I could be pregnant. If I haven't taken a test then they will do a blood test which is much more costly than a home test from Target! So I take pregnancy tests before most appointments just so I can tell my doctor that I'm NOT pregnant and save myself $50. Yes...I am that cheap! When we arrived home I took my test and a second line almost immediately appeared! I began screaming for Currey so he could reread the directions and verify what that second line meant. He was immediately elated. I however spent the next 48 hours in utter shock. I had so many questions, mainly how would this effect the adoption we had been dreaming of. I felt like I was betraying the children we were waiting for without even planning to. Thankfully, we have precious friends and family that God has used to comfort my heart. We still plan on adopting, it will just be on a different time table than we had originally intended. I took another test the following morning and then another that afternoon. All tests continued to confirm that I was indeed pregnant.

We found out our exciting news just before staff retreat. Originally we decided we would not tell anyone until I had reached the 12 week marker but we quickly realized that we would have to tell the rest of staff if we were spending a week together on a lake. We couldn't tell staff before telling our families so we began making phone calls. That was one of the highlights of this experience for me. Our families have been SO incredibly supportive of our adoption but news that their first grandchild was coming sooner than expected was incredibly welcomed news!

I was able to go to the doctor upon returning from staff retreat. I was at 9 weeks and we were able to have our first sonogram. There is no better feeling than seeing your baby for the first time and at that point the experience had become so much more real! The fewer clothes that fit, certain smells making me sick, not being able to focus until I have ________ to eat and watching my belly grow continue to validate that this is a real experience. I have been to the doctor again and Baby Blandford continues to have a strong heart beat. I go again this Tuesday and then a month from Tuesday we will get to find out Baby's gender. I CAN NOT WAIT!!!

9/2/09

I know, I know...two in one day! As I've mentioned previously, we've been hired by our church as the new youth pastors. Part of the reason that we love our church is that they view us as equal so hiring Currey meant that they got me as well. I have loved getting to do ministry with Currey. I will not even pretend that I've worked as hard as Currey but it has been a joy to get to know the kids and watch Currey in action. We have spent the summer doing weekly activities, either at our house or out in the community. We can't believe we get paid to hang out with such precious children. Currey made a video for church to show what we've been up to. Hope you enjoy a peek into our summer fun!

9/2/09

So I haven't created as many posts as I've planned but I'll get caught up eventually! We've got ALOT going on...but we'll get to that post one day.

Currey graduated from Wheaton the second weekend in May. I must admit that I'm glad I've waited on this post. I've had more time to think about that day and all that it meant for us. Graduation was a huge milestone for us. Currey has been in school our entire married life. I don't think that I anticipated graduation being such an emotional day. It's hard to put into words how significant that day was because if you weren't living it, it was just not the same. I always joke with Currey that he should have done better in picking a wife and found someone that could have supported him through school. Thankfully Currey loves and supports what I do but he had to work full time during all four years of school that we were married. That's a lot to balance but on top of that he volunteered at an inner city ministry, was active in our church, attended small group and worked diligently at our marriage. He worked long hours at a job that isn't glamorous and managed to maintain great grades while balancing it all. I am so incredibly proud of all that he accomplished and the more I reflect on that special day the more proud I feel. God taught us so much during this season of life. We would both admit that it's very strange that he hasn't returned to school this fall. But new adventures await! Currey got such a strong foundation while at Moody and Wheaton. We look forward to seeing how God uses all that education to further his kingdom!

Currey and Ryan graduating together for the 2nd time


Me and the Graduate


Rick and Shelly


Roger and Terri


Mim and Gramps


Colby 19 Buddies from Moody


Currey with Dr. Larson